Friday 11 August 2017

Abusive Relationship Killed Her


She died because of Abusive Relationship
I found this news very disappointing and very sad after reading it on a South African news website.

A 26-year-old lady, Aviwe Jam Jam has been found dead in Khayelitsha, Cape Town, few months after escaping from her ‘abusive’ boyfriend.

The mother of one, who is suspected to have been beaten to death by her boyfriend was found by her family at the Vygieskraal Stadium, Athlone, 29, 24km from her home.

Aviwe’s aunt, Nondumiso Zizi told reporters that her niece left for Pretoria and asked not to be looked for because she was hiding from her abusive boyfriend of several years and father of her 2-year-old child.

“Aviwe was in an abusive relationship with this boyfriend. Aviwe’s mother tried to warn Aviwe of this, but she wouldn’t listen. She loved [her] boyfriend, so there was nothing we could do about it.”

“Aviwe’s mother suspected that Aviwe won’t come [back] alive because of the way the boyfriend was treating her.”

The deceased’s aunt, further disclosed that Aviwe’s boyfriend came to their home, looking for Aviwe and had assaulted her stepfather with a panga because he thought the family was hiding Aviwe.

“He [the stepfather] was bleeding and the whole yard was full of blood because of them and the boyfriend climbed on top of him and said they should kill him.”

Minister of police, South Africa, Fikile Mbalula on a visit to the deceased’s family urged women to report abuse as soon as possible.

“Women, stand your ground because if you put up with abuse, you are putting up with death.

”He has been arrested for assault and alleged murder,” Mbalula said.

She died because of Abusive Relationship
26-year-old Aviwe Jam Jam and her Abusive boyfriend
This kind of news saddens me. I have always advocated for ladies to report abuse, speak out and don't die in silence.

No man that loves you will ever raise his hands on you! Get out of that relationship, he is not yours.

Now, she is dead and the boyfriend walks freely unless the law catches up with him.


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