I found this news very disappointing and very sad after reading it on a South African news website.

A 26-year-old lady, Aviwe Jam Jam has been found dead in Khayelitsha, Cape Town, few months after escaping from her ‘abusive’ boyfriend.

The mother of one, who is suspected to have been beaten to death by her boyfriend was found by her family at the Vygieskraal Stadium, Athlone, 29, 24km from her home.

Aviwe’s aunt, Nondumiso Zizi told reporters that her niece left for Pretoria and asked not to be looked for because she was hiding from her abusive boyfriend of several years and father of her 2-year-old child.

“Aviwe was in an abusive relationship with this boyfriend. Aviwe’s mother tried to warn Aviwe of this, but she wouldn’t listen. She loved [her] boyfriend, so there was nothing we could do about it.”

“Aviwe’s mother suspected that Aviwe won’t come [back] alive because of the way the boyfriend was treating her.”

The deceased’s aunt, further disclosed that Aviwe’s boyfriend came to their home, looking for Aviwe and had assaulted her stepfather with a panga because he thought the family was hiding Aviwe.

“He [the stepfather] was bleeding and the whole yard was full of blood because of them and the boyfriend climbed on top of him and said they should kill him.”

Minister of police, South Africa, Fikile Mbalula on a visit to the deceased’s family urged women to report abuse as soon as possible.

“Women, stand your ground because if you put up with abuse, you are putting up with death.

”He has been arrested for assault and alleged murder,” Mbalula said.

26-year-old Aviwe Jam Jam and her Abusive boyfriend

This kind of news saddens me. I have always advocated for ladies to report abuse, speak out and don't die in silence.

No man that loves you will ever raise his hands on you! Get out of that relationship, he is not yours.

Now, she is dead and the boyfriend walks freely unless the law catches up with him.

Here is the compiled list of Abusive Relationship quotes you should read and know how to get over it. Relationships and Marriages that are being mixed up with abusiveness are what is trending on the global communities today, and many are dying in silence for not speaking up.

Here on Abusive Relationship platform, I share stories and quotes that will give you the courage to break free and regain yourself from such abusive world.

Read below:

Quote 1. Don't be afraid losing someone who doesn't feel lucky to have you.

Moral lesson: Learn how to let go when the person whom you think you love, ain't what you thought he/she was. Just find the door and get away, otherwise you might be a victim of Abusive Relationship.

Quote 2. Sometimes we refuse to see how bad something is, until it completely destroys us.

Moral lesson: Some people fall in love at first sight, but what attracted them at first wasn't how it is, when their friends tries to intervene, telling them how bad it's they give a deaf ear and continue until they become a victim of an Abusive Relationship.

Quote 3. Don't you dare tell me how easy it is to leave an abusive relationship when you've never been in one.

Moral lesson: Those who have tasted it will tell you how, what they went through, someone who haven't been there do not have the right to say it. In all of this, draw experience from the people that have been in one, and learn your lessons. Don't be a victim!

Quote 4. Sometimes to let go of a toxic or abusive relationship is because your child is watching

Moral lesson: This is strictly for those that are married with kids, learn your lessons, know when to let go, whatever you do, your child is watching and psychologically he or she is affected by what is going on.

Quote 5: A healthy relationship doesn't drag you down; It inspires you to be better!

Moral lesson: When you are into a healthy relationship, your attitude and character will change, and the way you see things will automatically change, because it inspires you to be better than you think.

Quote 6. It doesn't matter what she did, It's never okay to hit a woman!

Moral lesson: Men this is for you, an adage once said that the day you hit a woman, the day you failed to be called a man.

I wish men will learn from this six quotes and women should also learn how to let go, don't say it's because of Love, No! he never loved you.

No man can love a woman and have the heart to raise his hands on her.

Take the door and get away, move on with your life. You have it, live it to the fullest, don't let someone else destroy you and your future in the name of relationships.

Be positive!

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